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Do You See This Woman?

  We finally had a date night scheduled. It had been quite a few months since my husband and I had done anything fun just the two of us. Any outings that involve us being together boiled down to juggling our energetic toddler, answering frequent questions from our five boys, and yelling to each other over store […]

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‘Unfollowing’ Trauma

  Our membership had been “revoked”, that’s how the church elders had phrased it in a letter to me and my husband. But just days after, those same leaders held an emergency meeting for their church members, encouraging them to cut ties with our family.    When I found this out, shock stalled the realization

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The Intentional Search

  Several towering pine trees can be seen through the left side of our bedroom windows. Since we moved to this house about four years ago they’ve become one of my favorite views. They aren’t super glamorous. I’m sure most people would find them forgettable, but because the peaks of the light green prickly trees

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Till Church Do Us Part

  It was just a normal night hanging out with friends from church. We adults would enjoy some conversation while the kids ran amuck through the house. We’d share stories about work and laugh over the previous week’s parenting challenges. Inevitably, something to do with church would come up. It was a topic that came

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Spiritual Abuse Triggers

  It was a rare morning. I had successfully made it to church on a Sunday morning with my kids. Well, three of my sons, anyway. We shuffled into the loaded service. There weren’t many seats open so we ended up sitting closer to the front than I would normally choose to sit with my

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How Do We Turn the Ship Around?

  There was a question that was haunting me.   I’ve asked God this question at night when my teething one-year-old struggles to fall back asleep.  I’ve asked it while I’m making macaroni and cheese on the stove at lunchtime for my kids.  The question lurks again while I wait for my child to finish

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